For years now… surely decades, the female-male relationship has been on its edge; peaking all conflicts. It is life. We were born to siege. That is a never settling down debate. Most might agree with how it is put and others might get offended. However, the truth is completely different.
We pin point our thoughts on papers; but stepping into streets, into lives.. that is definitely diverse.
Nowadays, the instinct collision has changed into “the male scarcity”. That species was sentenced to disappear; by who? Anonymous. Fighting for communication is not the case anymore. Men are lacking; at least that is what ladies believe.
“Being a
woman is a terribly difficult task, since it consists principally in dealing
with men.”, Joseph Conrad debates. Polish
novelist Joseph Conrad, considered as a psychological realism and modernism
writer explains why ladies are complicated. Betting, he would never know what
is on NOW.
Where did they –men- go?, that is the question.
For generations now, ideal male-female theories were negotiated. Did any work .. ?!!
It is getting worse. Wanna know the reason? “ROLEPLAY.”
Normally, it is known for a man’s protectiveness and a woman’s sensitivity. However, says who? Who said it is supposed to work that way. Cultures, religions, sciences; what?!
“I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naïve or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.”, Anais Nin. Erotic Cuban American Author Angela Anais Nin, classically pointed out women needs and structure.
Unknowingly, Anais made it harder for ladies nowadays. We question the reasons, looking for answers without digging into any. Usually, we blame men for being men. Despite that, the secret lies in us. Enjoying masculine blames is what we do. Not proving man innocence but we are the play makers. And, do we admit that? NO.
It is known for society perceptions in our head, how could a woman question a man’s humane courageous solitude when Fitzergald questioned our lady-pride. It is a one to one relationship; you fight, I fight. Driving us crazy.
“I hope she’ll be a fool.. that’s the best thing a girl can be in this world, a beautiful little fool.”; American Author F. Scott Fitzergald stated. Gets you to think, no.. ? BEAUTIFUL FOOL??
No objectivity can be up to this. I, you, her.. seriously, what is so common between men and sassiness; Women! You –man- can be attracted to that mind of hers not just a cute smile; which is highly needed but not as how humane, tough she is. Even Lilith Saint Crew said it, “Better to be strong than pretty and useless.” Case closed!
Tell you a secret, “No. Not closed. That feeling is mutual!!”
Your XY species wonder when will you ever settle. Simply because .. Mammas, you are part of the blame. It’s deep down there, under your skin; highly confidential to reveal. Martha Gellhorn unintentionally proves it right, “I know enough to know that no woman should ever marry a man who hated his mother.”
Where did they –men- go?, that is the question.
For generations now, ideal male-female theories were negotiated. Did any work .. ?!!
It is getting worse. Wanna know the reason? “ROLEPLAY.”
Normally, it is known for a man’s protectiveness and a woman’s sensitivity. However, says who? Who said it is supposed to work that way. Cultures, religions, sciences; what?!
“I, with a deeper instinct, choose a man who compels my strength, who makes enormous demands on me, who does not doubt my courage or my toughness, who does not believe me naïve or innocent, who has the courage to treat me like a woman.”, Anais Nin. Erotic Cuban American Author Angela Anais Nin, classically pointed out women needs and structure.
Unknowingly, Anais made it harder for ladies nowadays. We question the reasons, looking for answers without digging into any. Usually, we blame men for being men. Despite that, the secret lies in us. Enjoying masculine blames is what we do. Not proving man innocence but we are the play makers. And, do we admit that? NO.
It is known for society perceptions in our head, how could a woman question a man’s humane courageous solitude when Fitzergald questioned our lady-pride. It is a one to one relationship; you fight, I fight. Driving us crazy.
“I hope she’ll be a fool.. that’s the best thing a girl can be in this world, a beautiful little fool.”; American Author F. Scott Fitzergald stated. Gets you to think, no.. ? BEAUTIFUL FOOL??
No objectivity can be up to this. I, you, her.. seriously, what is so common between men and sassiness; Women! You –man- can be attracted to that mind of hers not just a cute smile; which is highly needed but not as how humane, tough she is. Even Lilith Saint Crew said it, “Better to be strong than pretty and useless.” Case closed!
Tell you a secret, “No. Not closed. That feeling is mutual!!”
Your XY species wonder when will you ever settle. Simply because .. Mammas, you are part of the blame. It’s deep down there, under your skin; highly confidential to reveal. Martha Gellhorn unintentionally proves it right, “I know enough to know that no woman should ever marry a man who hated his mother.”
Society and cultures feed us with concepts and traditions that might not be humanely correct; following what you do not believe in makes you guilty.
It was said that men without women are scarce by Mark Twain. Makes you think, right ?
Confusing how we could be the problem.
Tossing questions into the air, not gone with the wind but waiting for a perfect storm. One that proves us all wrong into the right direction. But do we wait? Do we sit enjoying a movie with a bucket full of caramel flavored popcorn?
Forgetting we are part of the game; technically, the game starters. Explaining why he is a male cloned version of you.
It is in the past if men our age are not as how they used to be. What really matters is how you raise other men. “Above all, be the heroine of your life, not the victim”, Nora Ephron.
Get your powers to be perfectly used instead of having them saved for fights. Boosting him does not only get you to raise a healthy child; but decrease the conflict. After all, You do not need to feel soft or weak; You are A WOMAN, you bring souls to life. All you need is BELIEF. Believing is part of achieving.
Do NOT cry over your spilt milk but soak it into perception.
